How to Make Friends Traveling While Staying in Youth Hostels

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5 Socializing Tips: How to Make Friends in Hostels

As someone who backpacks a lot, I believed that hostels are the best place to stay especially if you are traveling solo. Youth Hostels are cheap and offer complete amenities to make your stay comfortable enough. If you have not been in a hostel and you don’t know what it is, basically it’s a hotel, except they offer dormitory beds where you will be sleeping in a room with other guests. Hostels are an ideal place if you’re traveling on a budget because they are usually much cheaper than hotel rooms.

Youth Hostel BedroomYouth Hostel Dormitory Style Room

Aside from being budget-friendly, hostels are also the best place for those who are traveling solo. Let’s face it; traveling solo can be quite lonely sometimes. As splendid as the travel experience might be, it can be inevitable to feel to feel melancholic, wishing that you were sharing amazing time with someone or a group of friends.

Luckily, a Hostel Could Save You From This Situation!

It doesn’t really matter whether you are the sociable type or the shy type, being surrounded by some of the interesting people in an unfamiliar place is one of the most comforting things you may experience while traveling. For me, traveling is not only about the adventures you experience but also the people you meet along the way. So, to help you avoid any awkward situations you may encounter when trying to turn strangers into friends in a hostel, here are some tips that may come in handy:

Tip #1: Book a Sociable Hostel with Positive Reviews and a Common Area

Not all hostels are equal. Aside from making sure that the hostel offers basic necessities and facilities you may need during your stays, such as comfortable beds, good ventilation, hot shower, and free breakfast, you may want to do a little research to know if the hostel has a common area where guests can hang out! Remember that it is unethical to meet people inside the dorm room as you may disturb people who are still sleeping, that’s why it’s best to see to it that the hostel provide its guests with a place where people can socialize.

Tip #2: Don’t Be Shy – Be Social

Do the first move! Say hi to everyone you stumble upon with and give them a big smile. When I stayed at a hostel for the first time, I, too, was very shy! I had trouble looking at people and initiating a conversation thinking that they may not like me or they already know each other and I’ll be out of place. But it’s not really the case. Keep in mind that most of the people who stay at hostels are also solo travelers like you and they’ve probably just met at the hostel a few moments before you came, so there’s nothing you really need to worry about and you can still always join the club.

Youth Hostel Bedroom ExampleTypical Youth Hostel Dormitory

Solo travelers stay at common area and strike up a conversation – it could be a small talk or deeper conversation. Some of the good icebreakers include:

“Where are you from?”

This is probably the most common question I heard and gave when at the hostel and oh boy, it always works!

“Where else have you been to?”

From here, you can easily compare your experiences on the road. This can be followed by the question, “How long are you traveling for?”

“What are you going to do tomorrow?”

Which can be followed by: “Can I come with you?” Like I said earlier, most people who stay at a hostel are alone and so, chances are they’d be more than happy to tag you along in their activities.

Travel Suggestions

Asking travel suggestions is also a good icebreaker. You can ask for some useful travel tips what to do in the area or even in the places they have already been to.

Topics to Avoid

Of course, you’re still talking to a stranger; so, don’t be too comfortable with everything that comes out of your mouth. There are sensitive topics you may want to avoid including but not limited to:

  • Politics
  • Money
  • Sex
  • Complaints

Tip #3: Sign-up for Hostel Trips, Tours, and Events

Hostels usually organized events and activities like parties, pub crawls, day tours, and the like. Don’t miss this chance to meet people during these activities!

While you are on a trip with other guests, you will naturally get to meet or talk with other people without having to exert too much effort. Whether you are a shy person or not, you will have no other choice but to go out there and do your part! Ask questions, express your amazement, or just smile with people, doing these simple things will take you a long way.

Youth Hostel Bunk BedsYouth Hostel Bunk Beds

Tip #4 Get To Know the Staff

The guests who you are staying in the hostel with are not the only ones you have to make rapport with! I love making friends with the staff. Most of the hostel staff I met were down to earth, approachable, and treat their guests as family. Furthermore, by knowing them, they can simply introduce you to other guests who are staying there.

Whether they’re stationed in the bar, front desk, or even the manager or owner, they are likely to guide you on your stay. This is one of the main reasons why I’d always rather stay in hostels than hotels – the staff and owner won’t treat you as strangers but their peers.

Tip #5: Be Open-Minded

Traveling gives you wider perceptions of life, so this should be easier. Don’t judge people you meet and understand that they may have a different way of seeing things. If they said something you don’t agree with, let it all go and don’t fire up a debate or argument. Keep in mind that we came from different roots and cultures, and you are here to make friends, not enemies.

Hopefully, these tips will help you in your future hostel stays! Use these and have a safe and fun travel!


Alice Ross

Alice Ross

Travel Blogger

I’m Alice, the founder of Moving from place to place for the last two years, I learned how to live life from different perspectives. I aim to share knowledge and experiences I gained from my trips to encourage others to also experience the life outside their comfort zone. Follow me on my adventures!

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